Let me start this off with a quote that I thought was one of the best statements ever made.
In life when we have bad things to deal with weather it be a bad situation we got ourselves into, a bad person we have to deal with, or a bad habit, we tend to focus on the negative out comes of the situation and not the positive. We tend to over react and blow things out of proportion and hold on to the negativity which is obviously not good.
When we are so infatuated with the "little things" in life easily annoyed, easily irritated and easily bothered our reactions to the situation gets in the way of us getting what we want, we actually lose sight of the main objective. By doing that we tend to annoy other people and push them away and those people we pushed away might have actually been the people that was put in the situation to help us.
To sum all that up, most of us live our lives as if it were one BIG EMERGENCY. When bad things happen we rush around and pretend to be busy in order to avoid the situation and solve other problems while ignoring the first problem we had, little do we no we are not solving anything, we are only compounding our problems. And since we are living our lives like one big emergency we spend our lives dealing with drama after drama after drama. Soon enough we began to believe that everything is a big deal but we fail to realize that the way we deal with out problems has a lot to do with how fast we solve our problems. We should approach problems with ease it will make problems that seemed unsolvable actually easy to solve. it will also make even the Biggest problem seem small to us and the truly stressful things will not throw you off track as much as they once did.
We must replace old habits of reaction, with new habits of perspective which will in turn help us to have a more satisfying life.
Don't sweat the small things, I know its the simple things in life that matter, but still.. When a problem arises stop and think, is this really worth my time and energy, should I really be mad and stressed out about this. Just know that any problem that have, any situation your going through, it could be worse.....LET GO AND LET GOD. for he is in control.
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